I have been seperated from my husband and moved back to MD for a little over two weeks now. Last week we had a conversation and said that it was over and we needed to move on. Well yesterday my husband left me a voice mail saying that he would go to counceling everyday if that's what it took to try and save our marriage. He said but the only way we can do that is for me to come back and give it one more try. He wants me to get myself well while i am here and not come back till i am ready but in the same breath he says that the longer i am away the harder it is going to be to get our marriage back but he wants to give it his best shot. I am sooooo confused right now because i know he is sincere about wanting to try but i also know it is for all the wrong reasons. He wants his needs met and someone to take care of him and that's why he wants me back. Plus he says all this on one hand and on this left hand he has taken his wedding ring off. He said he is not in a marriage since i am not there trying to work things out with him. To me it's like he wants me back but is keeping the door open in case something else comes along. I don't know what to say to him, what is the right thing cause he is tugging on my heartstrings throwing out that lifeline of HOPE. HELP........
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