I read a little today on the Stockholm Syndrome post which was right on time to what I've been focusing on lately. That sense of obligation to regard the ex's feelings, make sure I'm not saying/doing anything offensive, and feeling guilty about moving on....and I'd been asking myself 'what is that???'....when he gave multiple silent treatments and was the poster child for 'emotional unavailability', he would then come back and slickly blame me or underhandedly address my responsibility for his behavior, and I would feel guilty and buy into the song and dance. Now that he's gone, I'm hating the remnants of that guilt...anyone else felt this way? I'm rambling but I'm hoping someone has something to say..
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