I broke off my realionship with my ex about six months ago, but we continued to talk and meet sometimes. Every conversation is continuous emotional and verbal abuse, and last night he said 90% of what he had ever said to me was true. That hurt me so badly. He has said mean horrible things I would be ashamed to share with anyone. It was killing me to still talk to him and hear the horrible things but also at the same time, not be "with" him. Anyway, I finally told him last night that I could not continue to talk to him and see him, that I felt like I was loving and holding on to something thats not there anymore. I know I deserve better, but tell me how to get over the first few days, how do you find the strength to not answer the phone calls or emails. It seems everytime I think I am away from him he pops up out of nowhere again to destroy my life. He tries to ruin every friendship I have, and can not stand the thought of me moving on. HELP!
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