So I spent all day today talking to a guy online from here and we have planned on meeting this weekend.. We spent all day off and on talking. Clear up till an hour ago (11pm).. He was really nice and we were really getting along.. Yes our conversation went to sex and we were talking about that.. And he was talking about having other women/men join us in private.. And I said I just really didn't know.. Well he kinda got pushy there at the end. He kept telling me how much loved me (after just one day of chatting)... He tells me he enjoys swinging and loves it actually.. Then I keep telling him I just don't know... He asks again, I say I don't know.. Then he says how about just adding a second guy, again I don'tknow... So then he asks for once a month.. He's pushing it on me.. I stood firm with i dont know though. Then I tell him maybe I'm not the right girl for him and he says no don't worry we'll just date for awhile.. Are these flags that he's going to keep pushing me? Trying to force it on me? Or am I just being overly sensitive?
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