Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group

Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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Is she abusive?

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deleted_user
I dont know what to do. After my mom found out I was gay, life has been hell for me. She harrases me, makes fun of me and threatens to either kick me out of hurt me. She recently just left from my bedroom screaming how she hates gay women and how she thinks im discusting and wants me out. She now thinks of me as nothing but a waste of money and last week she told me I will be forever unhappy. I dont know what to do anymore. I feel so lost. I know I cant stay here but I dont know where else to go.
deleted_user
deleted_user
fuck yea thats abuse. To me your mom has no right to say any of those words to you because for SHE IS THE ONE WHO CREATED YOU. you are a part of her regardless of what happens to you, and until she realizes that you are her child and nothing can ever change that, i suggest to stay strong. Most people lash out through ignorance not negligence. I dont know how long it will take, but time heals everything. If you need someone to talk to, dont hesitate to message me. I hope things turn out better for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Im so Sorry to hear that ur having such a horrid time...
your mum sounds a really hard person ... if you need to talk im here.
My daughter has many gay friends and there all welcome .
after all we shit the same dont we .. breath the same air, and bleed and hurt the same..
Chin up xxxx
BeckyK
BeckyK
Yes honey, that is abuse. I am not sure what you can do legally but what about staying with another family member, or friend? Would that be possible? You deserve so much better than this. I don't see how any mother could treat their child the way you are being treated. I have two boys and I could not do anything but love them, no matter what they decide as to their orentation. Hugs to you honey.
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