
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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I am in a bad marriage.. and I want out... sooner or later i will do it...
I know that I will get over that somehow.. but should I ever hope for "Happy Ever After" ??? All I am reading here,(and I am new to this) is how i can relate to most of you... and how we are all going tru or have gone tru it.. . but is there any Hope.. to ever be Happy ? I personaly don't know anybody that is happily married... I am begining to belive that there is no such thing.. I hope I am wrong, becouse the world would be so incomlete without it..
I know that I will get over that somehow.. but should I ever hope for "Happy Ever After" ??? All I am reading here,(and I am new to this) is how i can relate to most of you... and how we are all going tru or have gone tru it.. . but is there any Hope.. to ever be Happy ? I personaly don't know anybody that is happily married... I am begining to belive that there is no such thing.. I hope I am wrong, becouse the world would be so incomlete without it..
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If what you are looking for is "happily ever after" you will never find it. It isn't real. But if what you are looking for is contentment and peace and joy, you will definitely find that. Now granted you will only find it after you've found some peace in your life and that won't happen until after you are out of your abusive marriage.
There is always hope sweetie. Life wouldn't be worth living without it. But you've got to generate it. It doesn't just come flying out of the blue to find you.
However, I know several couples who are happily married and have been so for some time. It gives me a role model for what to look for in a future possible spouse.
Sometimes-- your happily ever after, for a while? Is YOURSELF. Sometimes it's the realizations that you can do things without a partner in crime. You build legs underneath yourself- you travel farther.
You have stated you want out of your marriage.. (if the reasons are serious, or abusive?) Please know that getting out is the best option.
You can have your own happily ever after with JUST YOU. Take it day by day.
(I thought when I left J. I would be a miserable mess.) I thought I'd be moping around daily at my singledom- that I'd lost everything I wanted. I am pursuing a new career- i'm finding myself.
Whatever you decide-- a man cannot create your own fairy tale. Sometimes we need to make the perfect endings out of our own actions- and you can do it.