Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
well ever since i left my abuser i have become the abuser i beat on my boyfriends and even though i know it's not right i didn't like it done to me i like having that control but it's not ok i was married once and i used to hit him and he loved me to death i feel so bad my bf now says i'm violent which i am but it's like my defense for his emotional abuse it's like a freakin circle god any advice
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
Maybe not counseling, more like Anger Management.
Like my eating disorder I tend to hurt myself before anyone else can... that way it doesnt hurt as much.
Just a thought...
It doesn't sound like you enjoy it much. I guess that makes two of you.
Your in counseling and i am sure it will help. You know , you may have violent out bursts, but that doesn't mean you are a bad person.
Your dealing with a lot of anger. My late wife was abused for eighteen years by her first husband. she had a lot of anger and had a difficult time dealing with it.
AT least you are acknowledging it and that is good.
Maybe a pair of boxing gloves are needed. no not for your boyfriend, although he may appricate them. But a pair of boxing gloves and a punching bag with the picture of my abuser, worked real well for me.
good luck
Lots of love.