I'm unsure of whether this would be an apporpriate group to post this in, but i figure it couldn't hurt. Me and my girlfriend have been in a relationship for a little over 2 years now. We also have 2 children together. Our youngest (Novalei) was just born less than a month ago. It can be extremely frustrating when she refuses to go to sleep and wakes up every 25 minutes. On top of that, we have 15 month old. She is a brat haha. She really is, but thats our fault. We spent every second of everyday with her. She got TONS of attention, not too mention tons of toys, and clothes. She is an overall great kid, but when she has her moments it is extremely frustrating because shes at the age were you can't exactly enforce timeouts and such. And she constantly wants to hold her little sister, but she obviously can't, so she whines and whines and whines. The reason im mentioning all of this is so you understand the strain thats on our relationship. On top of all of this, me and Ashley (my GF) our both sexual, physical, emotional, and verbal abuse victims. We have hit a horrible rough patch. Now our relationship has never really been all that good. I mean we have had fun an such, but its always something. Something is always going wrong. We have a horrible time communicating. We have trouble expressing our anger in the appropriate manner, without cursing or saying hurtful things or throwing things. We both push each other away and go out of the way to hurt the other. And we can never resolve an issue without starting another in the process. I love her. I honestly think with enough effort on both parts we can make it work. I know it may not seem that way, but I know its possible. My issue right now is I have been exploding the past 3 days about something that happened 4 days ago. I am exploding because I still believe I am angry about it. I am also angry because im unsure of how to release the hurt in my heart from my her and my mothers abuse. I want to get this anger out without letting it get the best of me and creating a new problem, but I don't know how. Can someone please help?
Thanks in advance
Thanks in advance
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