
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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I WANT TO SHOUT OUT TO YOU GUYS THAT I AM AFRAID I AM DYING OF A BROKEN HEART. I HAVE TRIED AND TOLERATED EVERYTHING HUMANLY POSSIBLE. I WAS TURNING TO A FEW DRINKS TO COPE, AND SINCE I GAVE THAT UP I FEEL POWERLESS. HE DOESN'T ALLOW ME TO HAVE ANYTHING THAT INTERESTS ME OR FRIENDS. IF I DO SOMETHING, FOR EXAMPLE, START READING WITH HIM IN THE ROOM, HE TALKS AND TALKS SO LOUD I CAN'T CONCENTRATE. IF I LOOK AT THE TV HE KEEPS TALKING AND I CAN'T EVEN HEAR THE NEWS IN THE MORNING. I GOT REALLY ILL LAST NIGHT WHEN HE RAISED HIS VOICE AS I WAS STARTING MY DINNER.I AM SO ILL TODAY THAT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH MYSELF FOR RELIEF....HE STARTED YELLING DURING THE NIGHT AT THE CAT, THE CAT SNEEZED. IT WOKE ME AND MY STOMACH WENT INTO A FURTHER KNOT. I AM SO TENSE I WANT TO POUND MY SHOULDER MUSCLES FOR RELIEF. I AM TAKING PAIN KILLERS EVERY 4 HRS AND I AM STILL SO SICK. I AM AFRAID I AM DYING AND I DON'T WANT TO. AT THE SAME TIME, WHEN I FEEL THE HATRED I FEEL SORRY FOR HIM BEING SUCH A SICK LOSER. MY INSTINCT IS TO HELP PEOPLE AND ANIMALS SO I AM IN THE MIDDLE OF A MAJOR LIFE CONFLICT. I JUST GOT A BOOK ON ANGER TO TRY AND UNDERSTAND HIM, IT MAKES ME SICKER TO READ THAT HE GETS A HIGH, HE GETS AN ADRENALINE RUSH FROM DOING THIS TO ME. PLEASE DON'T PORTRAY ME AS A PERSON WHO WANTS TO BE A VICTIM, I AM OLDER NOW, MUCH OLDER, AND I AM TOO TIRED TO DEAL WITH THIS ANYMORE. THIS AM HE SCREAMED ABOUT THE COMPUTER...I AM ONLY MARRIED TO HIM FOR 5 YRS AND I HAD A COMPUTER YEARS BEFORE I EVER KNEW HIM. HE NEVER HAD ONE IN HIS LIFE. HE TOUCHED THE KEYBOARD AND BECAME AN EXPERT, MAKING ME TOTALLY INADEQUATE IN HIS SICK MIND. I LET HIM ABUSE ME ALL THE TIME.
COULD SOMEONE TALK TO ME FAST I AM ALMOST SHEDDING TEARS I AM SO SAD LIVING LIKE THIS. I AM NOT A WOMAN THAT CRIES SO I AM MORE OR LESS COMPLETLY DESTROYED BY THIS MAN RIGHT NOW. I WANT MY LIFE BACK FROM FIVE YEARS AGO!!!
SHOULD I JUST CRY?????///
COULD SOMEONE TALK TO ME FAST I AM ALMOST SHEDDING TEARS I AM SO SAD LIVING LIKE THIS. I AM NOT A WOMAN THAT CRIES SO I AM MORE OR LESS COMPLETLY DESTROYED BY THIS MAN RIGHT NOW. I WANT MY LIFE BACK FROM FIVE YEARS AGO!!!
SHOULD I JUST CRY?????///
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Don't just sit there honey, go and i mean GO NOW. Call a hotline, call a shelter, call a neighbor, call a relative. Get your butt out of that house.
I just messaged you the escape plan that maryarlene mentioned.
Please missy, please. Use it.
Lovely, ain't it. He also said I deprived him of a family because I wouldn't have more children with him. We only have one child. He is nasty, sarcastic, demeaning, oh..the list goes on. I would run if I didn't have my daughter. Believe you me!!!
Honey, you are stronger than I am. You get yourself out of there NOW. Don't even think twice about it. You certainly CAN HAVE your life back from 5 years ago and YOU SHOULD! Go do it.
Don't even think twice. Follow the advice on leaving from the previous post(s).
Hugs and all the best!!!
I would recommend that you call the Y.W.C.A. It is a great organization. They have lots of services for abused women and children. They offer counseling, support groups,emergency shelter, legal advice, help with schooling, child care and so much more. They will help you find housing and hold your hand through this horrible ordeal.
Things you need to start doing now....
Put legal documents in a
safe place.
Have copies made of keys to the house and car.
Put any medication that you take in a safe place.
Let your neighbors know what is going on.
Develop a code with neighbors if you are in trouble so they can call the police.
Keep your cell phone charged and keep the charger in a safe place.
Put aside some money, credit cards, and change in a safe place.
Put a couple changes of clothes in a safe place.
Cosmetics etc.
Keep a bag packed for when you are ready to leave.
*Be very careful when it comes down to the end they can become even more violent.
After you leave don't come back unless, you have a police officer with you.
You should file a Restraining Order on him.
If you need to talk, I am here for you. GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU SAFE.
Your friend,
Lisa
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A DV expert made a presentation at group therapy today. She said something that was very empowing to me. "Yes, this has happened, yes, this is where you are...now accept that and visualize where, what and who you want to be in the future".
You are in control of YOUR future. Take your power back and care for yourself first. I know, easier said than done, but it can be done. I'm going to prove it for myself. I hope you will too. Hugs...Netti
~ Rachel