I finally felt strong and confident enough to tell her I want a divorce. Now she is telling me that I should of told her sooner, that is all my fault that I'm destroying this family, she tells me that she loves me and she wont ever let me go, that she doesn't have any friends and nobody loves her not even her own family. When I told her that she needs help just like me (therapy) she is refusing saying that shes only gonna do that if i stay. She's saying that if i leave she is gonna end all this that she works for me and my son and she is very stressed at work. That we never talk that somebody has put this idea in my head. My doc told me that next time she says something about killing herself i need to call 911 and ask for well being check for her but i know if i do that and they will say she's ok, this is gonna get far worse then before. I can't do this I'm lost i don't know what to do my therapy appointment is Wednesday night i might get some help, but it's too long of a wait. I've been on meds for eight months diagnosed with clinical depression and therapy every two weeks. I know now that my situation at home brought me to this point and I know many of you felt the same way, I feel ashamed as a guy to be in this situation, but i understand that with me it goes way before I started dating my wife, and yes I'm weak but wanted to get control of my life and feel better, it just took me 13 years to realize that. I'm just lost and don't want to fall back into this deep whole that I've been in.
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