
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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I fear that I am becoming or am an abusive person. Things in my relationship have really changed. It started with yelling. It escalated to me throwing things. I thought I had a handle on that. Things were good for a while but just the other day I snapped and I hit my boyfriend. I did it twice in the same day and totaled about 7 hit's. He say's he's not mad. He totld me he didn't want me to leave, but I felt Ineeded to put some space between us. I hhave never done anything like this before. I have never acted this way against anybody. I am shocked and ashamed and I want it to not happen again. I can't aford counsling and I fear that I need/want to take classes of some kind, but I can't afford that either. I understand that there is a cycle to being abusive. But, what if I don't want to be. Can I stop it? How? I feel horrible becasue well, I hit him, and then everyone around me just looks at it like "Well what did he do wrong" The point is I should not have hit him. I feel bad but it's a cycle. I am afraid it will happen again.
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You need help and you need it NOW. I don't mean tomorrow, i mean today.
I might also suggest that you get to your doctor and see what steps can be taken regarding anger mangament issue.
Your behavior needs to be broughtin check.