Hi, I have been reading posts on here about abuse. I come from an abused background, have been to counseling and thought I was finally doing ok. I have been living healthy, working, taking care of myself. Then in January I got a call from someone I once cared for, but avoided because he was dishonest. He lived in the US for over 30, didnt renew his visa, and now is stuck in Mexico. Like an idiot, I married him last May because I thought we were in love. I am his sole support and he spends money like its never going to end. He has recently turned abusive. He puts me down, makes physical threats, etc. Then he says he is sorry and he loves me. I think he is a psycho, hooked on gambling, and is just using me to get a green card. But I feel bad for thinking this. he wont get a job or even volunteer over there. I pay for everything. I just filed for divorce. I know I sound confused, but I feel so sad and at the same time I just want to leave this rude, nasty, lazy man. Then again, I worry about him because he is in Mexcio and hates it there.
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