Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Today he left yet again but this time I have changed the locks.
He threw an important document away from the tax office I needed if I get a new job and luckily the rubbish lorry hadn't been yet like they should have earlier and I managed to salvage it. I thought he would have hid it but he admitted he had thrown it away "by accident" and didn't like me making allegations against him.
he couldn't cope with the fact I would pretend he wasn;t there and kept asking if I wanted him to leave but I knew he was trying to call my bluff. He said he is fed uip of the way I treat him and at least he isn't an a@@ehole like I am.
I got really mad and grabbed hold of him and told him to get the hell out of my house. He said he was going when good and ready and I started throwing things around I was so angry. I have been expecting the police round as he would probably report me for violence against him pushing him out of the door.
He has taken a suitcase and said he has somewhere to stay for 2 days. I asked for my house keys to which he refused saying he wanted to come back in when he wanted. No way for that.
Trouble is I feel so sad as my children don't know yet. they have their friends round and I don't want to upset them. i am scared of how will manage financially and don't feel like eating. I hope I will feel better soon. I told him to stay away from me and my children but don't know if that was the fair thing to do as my children may hate me for it
what do others think please
June
He threw an important document away from the tax office I needed if I get a new job and luckily the rubbish lorry hadn't been yet like they should have earlier and I managed to salvage it. I thought he would have hid it but he admitted he had thrown it away "by accident" and didn't like me making allegations against him.
he couldn't cope with the fact I would pretend he wasn;t there and kept asking if I wanted him to leave but I knew he was trying to call my bluff. He said he is fed uip of the way I treat him and at least he isn't an a@@ehole like I am.
I got really mad and grabbed hold of him and told him to get the hell out of my house. He said he was going when good and ready and I started throwing things around I was so angry. I have been expecting the police round as he would probably report me for violence against him pushing him out of the door.
He has taken a suitcase and said he has somewhere to stay for 2 days. I asked for my house keys to which he refused saying he wanted to come back in when he wanted. No way for that.
Trouble is I feel so sad as my children don't know yet. they have their friends round and I don't want to upset them. i am scared of how will manage financially and don't feel like eating. I hope I will feel better soon. I told him to stay away from me and my children but don't know if that was the fair thing to do as my children may hate me for it
what do others think please
June
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Castle
its a really hard thing you are doing and it takes a lot of courage. You and your children will be better off like this. Keep believing. Its really hard to get bearings on our finacial situation after abuse. They suck out our self esteem of being able to make it. I am still working on this for me. I keep praying that I can do this and for independent go getter spirit to heal from this and do right by me. It will happen.