I was with Steve for a little over 3 months. Almost immeditaely I picked up on some of the signs of abuse, unfortunately this is nothing new to me I have been in several other abusive relationships before this one. Anyway my question is why was I able to get over the rest of them and for some reason I can't get over Steve? We argue all of the time over everything he's so possesive, he tells me how to dress, who I should hang out with and where I can and can't go. We got into a huge arguement the other day and I told him it was over. He called me yesterday and as bad as I didn't want to answer the phone I did. He fed me the whole "I miss you," " I want to make this work" crap and I said I don't know you have to give me time to think about this. Does anyone have any advice on how to ignore him totally he keeps hounding me on myspace and calling me I don't know what to do.
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