I am so surprised at the amount of people here who do not seem to realize what living in abuse is doing to their children. How does anyone reach the blind? the deaf? the mute? because that is problem here. I am new to daily strength and not really up on how this all is going to make a difference in anyone's life, but I really have to ask just what can be gained by telling people they just have to be supportive and wait for the light bulb moment to go off? I am totally shocked by this. Because I lived in daily, constant terror of abuse careening around me as a child. I know what it feels like and it totally boggles my mind that people just live in this dream world of magical thinking.... heck, I did it too, but I was already a by-product of this abuse. Why does anyone think all you can do is be supportive and wait and see if people are going to wake up eventually? Because "eventually" is really way too long a time for children to have live in this insanity, the damage to them might be irreversible...their very souls are rotting out here, their very ability to have any self esteem or sense of security or belief in the value of life is at risk here........
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