Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
I am mad, and I am sick of all the people in our lives, his family, his employer, his employees under him, his friends thinking he is such a talented, nice, hard working, great provider when NO ONE BUT ME and our four year old son, and you guys, know what I go through EVERY DAY. I am SICK of people thinking I have it all, such a great life, nice house, nice car, a handsome husband who is "such a hard worker" and "he trie so hard". YEAH< he does work hard because of what he wants everyone else to THINK. He tries hard at becoming a better CHEF, or a better actor so people will see him as such a talent, and such a great husband and daddy. HE ISN"T, he is mean, and abusive, and antagonistic, and neglectful, and he is hurting his family by being in this state of DENIAL and pointing the finger at me and only me, blaming me and everyone else, calling me crazy, and a loser, and a bad mom and wife, and threatening me with everything under the sun, by taking away any means of money that I had to take care of myself and my son, by threatening to leave me without a car. He is DECIETFUL and I dont know what he is trying to accomplish by all of this "its all MINE, and I will punish you so you will have nothing," and taking everything away from me (and our son at the same time). He is NOT NORMAL and I want everyone to know what he is doing to this family and to his wife and child! It isn't fair that NO ONE else sees his true colors, who he really is. I am not pretending anymore, I want everyone to know who he is! I wish I could put an add on t.v and let the whole state and all the rich people he works for and who "admire" him know exactly what he is like when he isnt hiding behing his chef coat and his job and his "talent". HE IS AN EGOMANIACLE, SELFISH, ARROGANT, POMPOUS, LYING, DECEPTIVE, COWARD.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
In my case, I finally got up the courage to put an end to his abuse and insisted that he leave. So how do you think he twists that when he tells his story? He leaves out his 9 years of abuse towards us and claims that I "kicked him out" while he was trying to do everything he could to repair our marriage. It's unfair and I'm sick of it!
Wouldn't it be wonderful to have video footage of our "perfect husband's" abusive behavior to air on national TV? So others could see what we do? So others could see the truth?
i'm done covering for my ex's ass, if someone asks they are damn sure going to get the truth, to hell with him.
2)They can't make their behavior go away just by SAYING they don't remember. I remember laughing in my husband's face when he tried that one.
3)They tell themselves and others so many lies about how the situation 'really is' that they actually start to believe the crap that spouts from their mouth.
4)In time, their TRUE CHARACTER will show to others. Be patient- my stbx finally was seen for the pathetic ass that he is. Even by his family
5)if you want to hear a good song that will make you feel better, download Mary Chapin Carpenter's "He Thinks He'll Keep Her" (HA!!)