Ive been married for 4 years, I love him very much but I am fed up and tired of always being put last. His family since day 1 have rejected me, he moved into my home, with my furniture and he had nothing. I loved him have given everything to him, stand by him, but he keeps going to his family and pretending that i am not here - to make them happy but doesnt care about how upset i am. He sneaks around, deletes his calls and messages everyday, sees them as soon as i am out the door and will not stand up for me. I have lost respect for him and I am getting worse by the day. I have talked to him about it several times but he doesnt hear me. I am not important enough, he doesnt care if i cry as long as he doesnt upset them. They are nasty, they dont care for him and hurt him all the time and he keeps going back for more. They backstab him and only call him when they want something, he knows they do this and he gets upset, but that still doesnt stop him. I dont care about his problems with them anymore as he doesnt care about me against them. I want to be able to stop feeling sad and stick up for me but i am not heard. Help i feel horrible, kicked in the guts and no self esteem.
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