i have been married for about 3 years and my wife and i were best friends and great together before our wedding and then as soon as we got married she wanted to try having kids and we tryed and then soon found out that it is not possible that some of my meds for my disease have made me infertile well at that point she litterally changed that is when she started getting silent and then telling me how horrible everything i was doing was and that i was being selfish for following the dr's instructions and not working and i have now gotten to where i spend everyday trying to do things that will please her and make her happy and i feel like i am living my life for her happiness well recently she has started decideing to not allow me to get some of my meds mainly the ones for pain and also is always voluntering me for jobs her mother wants done even when she know if i do them i will be in so much pain i will hardly be able to move afterwards i have found if i tell her any of my feelings she just gets silent then says i am accusing her of everything and she will stay silent for days until i apoligize for saying what i did. well now somehow i am trying to figure out how to help myself but also help save our marriage she refuses to try counseling saying she won't talk to a stranger so i am at my wits end i need help
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