How do you answer the question "why can't you let the past go and move forward?" when every day you are confronted with the same control, manipulation and lack of respect that has always been there? You try to explain how those events trigger the same feelings inside of you and the response is always "you're still living in the past" and "you need to move forward like I have". I am the one that is made to feel that I am holding back the relationship and not trying. Yet I am the one in counseling. I am the one that has been beaten down. How do you respond when the other person blames you for still living in the past when you are so emotionally hurt that you can't forget.......How can you do it?
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So, I seem to remember reading on the last update, that we would now stay signed in for a week. Did I misread that?Because, I am still signed out if I walk to the washroom and back. Forget a week! Am I the only one experiencing this lack of being able to stay signed in? If so, I will contact DS. If not, then let’s discuss!Thanks!