Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
ok well i'll start off by telling you i have an eating diorder and am attempting to get better i have an eatting plan to follow so i have to eat certian things at certian times or i won't eat. Now at dinner time my hubby always makes sure i'm eatting what i'm ment to and then goes and eats his food most of the time all he dose is complain about how i made him a shit meal and the other day he throw it across the room now all this dose to me is make me feel realy crap so i punish my self (purge) He has a big problem with throwing things he offten talks about killing himself to get away from me (as a joke he says) and calls me names all the time ilke for example he us to call my lardass (i weight 45 kg's and am 160cm tall) i know i'm not a lardass but i feel like it all the time and when he said it all it did was make it worse for me he stoped that because i told him how it effected me and now he calls me human skellton whitch still makes me feel crap then he gose around calling me grumpy i could go on alot more but is this normal or is it abuse?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
not cool.
someone here gave me this great link
http://youarenotcrazy.com/
i hope this is helpful *hugz*
You need to talk to your counselor about his behavior and get the assurance that it is not you if you don't believe me. If your counselor doesn't work much with abuse victims, then you need to find one who does so that you can really get the type of help you need.
Look at how he is treating you now. Is there any way he would appear to be satisfied with your appearance? You gain a little and he calls you lardass, you lose a little and he calls you skeleton. He knows that your appearance is your hot button and uses it to control you. Then, he utilizes your eating plan for the same purpose and even tries to sabotoge it. You do NOT deserve to be treated this way. He either needs to get righ or get lost. You should begin to consider an escape plan, because even though he doesn't appear to be physically abusive, he is definitely a danger to your health and well-being, if not your very life. My daughter has an eating disorder, and purges when she is triggered by her memories of abuse, so this is something that can affect you the rest of your life, whether or not you stay with him. The longer you stay with him, the worse it will get unless he gets help for his behavior. By the sounds of what he is like, I doubt that he will think that he has the problem.