Right now, I do not miss him, I miss what I wanted in a marriage. I am glad he is gone. I have no contact other than a notebook and exchange of our child. I get bothered very much so by the fact that now, now, now...he wants to do things with my son, he interacts, he makes plans, playdates with friends that he never liked or wanted him around when we were together, he goes to church, he visits and helps out my family which he called all psychos for 18 years...But behind the scenes, he is still as ignorant and abusive as he can possible be concerning finances and anything else he can write about in the notebook or say bad about me to my son. How do I not get angry by his tactics now, and how long will this phase last?
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