Hi everyone, need some advice. He went to bank last week and withdrew all money, removed his name from acct, put stops on my atm and visa check card. I wrote him a long letter telling him I have contacted a lawyer (a woman) and he cant do all that. In short, he came to me this morning after finding lots of my paperwork documenting his behavior along with my questions for the lawyer, and he claims to have seen a psycologist yesterday and asked me if I am willing to still do marriage counseling. I am really mad right now, just got a pep talk from my doctor. He has my son right now (possibly driven him without the car seat that is in MY car), of course he claims to have borrowed moms. I made an appt with the lawyer in 2 weeks, but I need to stay focused here no matter what he comes up with...HELP. Anyone wanna offer what he may be thinking cuz I cant guess anymore. I was afraid he would come home drunk last night after finding my papers (which I do have copies of elsewhere outside the house), but he didnt, to my surprize. I dont know where he spent his day yesterday, havent asked due to fear of response. I need help. I am feeling really nervous, and he was asking me about "my plans for thanksgiving". He always works, so I figured I would take my son somewhere fun (since we have no family except my psycho in laws, NOT doing it !). I am afraid he will pull the whole 'but my family wants to see him for the holiday". Help, feel like I am regressing back into the whole brainwashed mode.
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