Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
He called me this afternoon and he says he has an apartment and he is coming to get some of his clothes tomorrow. I have no idea what all he is going to take or not take. He is leaving his cats here with me which makes me happy. I hate to see them go and it really hurts that the day is going to come that I will have to let them go. But I told him how I felt about his abuse over the past 5 years. Total waste of time. It was almost like he enjoyed me saying he abused me. No apologies, nothing. I will never understand how a person can be so horrible to another person and not have any remorse for it. I told him he can dump all the money in my account he wants that does not take the abuse away. He is still trying to offer me money. It is over, I feel relief and highly doubt he will ever ask me back. However, I told him I wanted the key to the apartment and he said he doesn't feel comfortable not having a key, because he pays the rent and he wants to be able to come over and see the cats and get things when he wants. He went into a rage when I asked about the key. Not quite sure what that is all about. But he did get a place and is out.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
This is so screwed up. I wish i could... well never mind about that. But you are right in recognizing that you will have to let him go. I suggest a bit more seperation. If you can move out, start over, do your own thing for a while and see how it goes. He's almost like a bad drug. The more you're around him the more you want to be. So you must weene yourself off him. Good Luck!