Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
Got back to dads last night and the thing I always worried about has happened. My X went to visit my youngest and her boyfriend and has convinced her that tho he tried for years to see her and her sister I put a stop to it. I am supposedly at fault for her not having a relationship with her father. He forgot to tell her that he had the best visitation the courts could have given him but in the end it was he that called me one summer day and told me to come get MY kids because he could no longer handle them. He forgot to tell her that it was his girlfriend that went to his mother and said "I love your son but I so wish he didnt have kids". He forgot to tell her that he would breeze into town for unscheduled visits and then come to me for gas money to leave town and that he quit coming only when I started refusing to put gas in his car. He forgot to tell her that the last time he took them on a vacation he broke a court order and thats why I insisted the state police stop him and bring the girls back. I don't even know how to deal with this it hurts so bad. No I wasnt the best parent I will admit it but after getting out from under his abuse I never once stopped him from seeing his kids and guess in the end this is how I am repayed.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I know that the last hting a good parent does is put the children in the middle, but he already has.
don't do it so that they will hate them, but he has just made it so that they at least need the knowledge presented to them about what type of person he is. don't try to "recruit" them to your side, just give them the truth.