Got back to dads last night and the thing I always worried about has happened. My X went to visit my youngest and her boyfriend and has convinced her that tho he tried for years to see her and her sister I put a stop to it. I am supposedly at fault for her not having a relationship with her father. He forgot to tell her that he had the best visitation the courts could have given him but in the end it was he that called me one summer day and told me to come get MY kids because he could no longer handle them. He forgot to tell her that it was his girlfriend that went to his mother and said "I love your son but I so wish he didnt have kids". He forgot to tell her that he would breeze into town for unscheduled visits and then come to me for gas money to leave town and that he quit coming only when I started refusing to put gas in his car. He forgot to tell her that the last time he took them on a vacation he broke a court order and thats why I insisted the state police stop him and bring the girls back. I don't even know how to deal with this it hurts so bad. No I wasnt the best parent I will admit it but after getting out from under his abuse I never once stopped him from seeing his kids and guess in the end this is how I am repayed.
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