Hi Everyone.....I'm hoping that someone can "shed a little light" on me in regards to this type of behavior. My ex boyfriend of 5 years(we have not been together in a couple of months)started texting me again and of course sucked me back into me trying to be his friend. He was trying to get me back by trying the whole "I love you, can't live without you, I will change, I can never be with anyone else" manipulation tactic. Then within hours he completely switched gears and threatened to kill me, and called me every horrid name in the book and once again accusing me of being with someone else, etc. He is also a pathological liar. I have not given him his gun back, which I have had for over a year, but I am still scared because he has stalked me before. I think he is Sociopathic, but he does show remorse. Is this quick switch thing normal for abusers even if they have not been drinking or anything? I want to get a protective order against him, but I am embarrassed because I have family on the police force here. I am a 40 year old successful woman and don't know if the text messages and bizarre behavior are enough to warrant a protective order. Help. Thanks in advance for any help you can give me................M
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