this is an excellent book to read for anyone who is either still in or even already out of an abusive relationship: it's called "why does he do that? inside the minds of angry and controlling men" by lundy bancroft. he facilitates abuse perpetrator programs and he goes into great detail about why abusive men behave and act the way they do, what they get out of it, which is why so many are unwilling to make any changes, how they abuse and manipulate not just their partners, but also how they manipulate others, including the legal system to get what they want, how to get out safely, it covers everything. i highly recommend it to all on this board. it's a huge eye-opener! luv to all, heartstring
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