Okay, I've been thinking. Dangerous I know, considering. I cannot protect my children from their father. I have been told that until he really hurts them, there is nothing I can do. I, the therapists, and the pediatrician are pretty sure my daughter has been molested and my son has even received a bruise during a "supervised" visit. My stbx wants the supervision waived and the supervisor has written a report about how great a father he is during visits. So this is likely. DHS has an open investigation right now - but have already told me that they are going to come back "unfounded" because my daughter won't talk about what happened and my son's story rambles (due to PTSD). I am considering going back and allowing him to do what he does best. I know he would fall back into the pattern very quickly and I could go to the doctor and have evidence of him sexually assaulting me within a month (almost guarenteed since he had been doing this every month for the last year and a half we were together). I know that it wouldn't take long for him to abuse the kids and I could collect evidence. I am thinking that this would give me the credibility I need for the courts to finally see what a monster he is. However, I am also afraid. He may take things too far. I don't know. I know it would be crazy to go back, but I don't want my kids to be subjected to him alone either. I am at a loos for another solution. HELP! Has anyone done this? Did it work?
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