I divorced my abuser. I was to stupid and proud to ever file charges against him. I didn't want my mom to be right about me making a mistake in marrying him. I finally had to get a protective order against him. Then he retaliated by getting one against me. He was unfortunately granted one because I was threatened with my job if I missed work to go to court. He is using his protective order to keep me from my son. (He was granted joint custody because I never filed charges.. had no proof that he was a danger to our son.) Now he is getting physically violent with his girlfriend in front of our son. She won't press charges, because like me, she is proud, and "not scared of him" I have only seen my son twice since May. He is supposed to be with me every other week. He has lied and told his family that they aren't allowed to talk to me per the protective order... and I got slapped with a bench warrant for emailing him saying "want to get my son... don't know how else to get in touch." I can't afford a lawyer, and can't prove that my son is in danger. Any advice?
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