I have been married to my husband for a year now. It has been the most frustrating year of my life. To make a long story short, we just came back from a vacation with two of our friends. It was the worst vacation ever. My husband and I fought from day one on. In my eyes, he was belittling me, being sarcastic to me, I didn't understand why. On his side, I had an attitude, I was causing the problems. One of our friends sat down with me and told me how unacceptable his behavior is. I started researching, and what do I find, but this whole idea of emotional abuse exactly fits how he treats me. And, the effects the vicitim feels is exactly how I feel. It's unbelievable. I read, and read, and that's it! That is how he treats me! That is how I feel!! I finally am able to put my finger on it, now that I see it in words. Now, I just do not know what to do about it. He makes me feel unacceptable, like there is something wrong with me, and I seriously have questioned my mental stability throughout this past year. He is so stubborn and controlling, that I do not feel as tho he would ever see it or be able to change. What can I do??
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