I have been married for eleven years to an abusive husband we have children and I need to know what to do most of the time I dont want to have sex because he always is physical right before the act and says that it is my idea of fore play there are unwanted sex acts and his always grabbing my parts in front of my children and when I complain he says I dont love him I am financialy abused he controls everything if he is not in control he is miserable I have left he always says he will change but like the times before he dose it for a while I need to know how to stay away from him how do I be strong there are alot more bad things hes done to our family but there is not a big enough computer memory to hold it all and talking about it makes me cry nd feel hopeless please give all the advice you can give thank you books or movies names would be great I think I am BIG TIME co-dependant
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