
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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He says I act crazy.
He orders me and makes demands.
He withholds communication, affection, love, info and the truth.
He squeezed my hand till it hurts (the only physical abuse).
He lies and denies/justifies it.
he uses anger to control/manipulate. He Blocks and Diverts my attempts to communicate.
He makes hurtful jokes then blames me for not liking it.
He makes false accusations.
He discounts my feelings &needs.
He gives me the silent treatment.
He yells at me.
He blames me.
All this when he can and does treat me well, lovingly, with care and supportively at times.
my older brother of 4 years gets in my face and scares the hell out of me. my brother and father hate eachother so they scream all the time and my mother and i are both depressed because of it.
After this, had now-ex-b/f who was narcissitic - very scary. Lovely and generous one minute then flipped the switch into aggressive bully-totally of rocker mode. Would beat the door to get in, txt abuse all night, accuse me of affairs, search my house for "a man" (who did not exist) accuse me of texting or phoning "a man" when I did no such thing, undermined my personality and emotions totally, and criticised my appearance. Would not have a physical relationship - all manner of reasons including the fact I have had children.
Last straw was exploding at me in a wayside parking area on dark bit of road at midnight when supposedly giving me a lift home, and not letting me out of car, and it was 45 mins from home in car anyway. Knew I was not safe. Left him, but the verbal abuse and txts continued.
Eventually started going out with another bloke, and he STILL was txting me - accusing me of never telling him I did not love him.....
Glory help us....he's gone now.
Anyway - all over and done with now, but it has left me nervous, and very very insecure, and it is hard for me to understand how I might be lovable.