Hi, I've been on DS, but only messaaging, supporting,etc. I never understood how to work the boards. But, this one is a BIG part of my life right now.. I'm terminally ill, have no income, no way to leave and now it's affecting my 19 yr old daughter. I have a very hard time typing, so describing the pproblem is a HUGE ddeal for me. mY husband used to get physical, but now it's all emotional or verbal. I have no way out cuz there are no shelters near me, my family is aall gone, except for my adult kids. I stayed so long with him for my kids, but now i know that my girls are choosing men just like him to be with. He takes care of me in some ways, but is very angry and controls my entire life, as well as my daughters life. I live in the mntains, far away from shelters. Plus i need oxygen 24/7 and a hospital bed. I just don't know what to do. I can hardly stand myself anymore cuz i have stayed to help my kids, but now i know i have only hurt them by staaying. Anybody haave any ideas what to do?
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