My husband is emotionally abusive. He keeps saying that he doesn't want to be this way. He implys that he is trying to do better. But all I see is him covering up what happened by starting to act super nice to me after an argument...no appology or recognition of what he said. When I try to bring it up, he tells me to get over it. I got one appology from him last night when I told him he was out of line. This was after he had told me that the reason he argues with me is because he doesn't agree with me. I explained to him that you can't argue with someone's feelings...but he wasn't having it. This sounds like denial to me. I just wish I knew how much he really cared about being with me. I am having a hard time distinguishing when he is being sincere. Has anyone ever broken an abuser out of his denial? How did you know that he had changed?
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