My boyfriend of 7 years has been emotionally, verbally and rarely physically abusive. He put me down, humiliated me, controlled everything I did and who I talked to? Now that he is in prison for assault - not me, and he actually did not do this, I was there - he continued to call constantly (I assume to try to check up on me) until we had paid almost $4000 in phone bills (I am a single mom and struggling financially). I wrote an 8 page letter venting everything I always felt and haven't heard from him since Easter. He frequently withheld affection as a form of punishment. What now? Sometimes he would seem different from prison now that he was the one being controlled. Do they ever change?
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