i've just come out of an emotionally abusive relationship. i think i'm finally to the point where it doesnt matter if he apolgizes. This will only be the second day of not talking to him. I've read so many articles about abusers "keeping you off balance" in one way or another...and now i'm really really ANGRY about it. I keep having sort of violent dreams and i'm not really that kind of a person. everytime the situation hits me i feel like i've been punched in the stomach. I have this overwhelming desire to get back at him...which I don't really think is right. Anyone have any suggestions on how to deal with this constructively?
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