I have been married for 4 years and together for 7. My husband is the most uncaring person that I know. One day his phone was chirping with an incoming text message that I read and replied to. It was a female that claimed she has been in a relationship with him and that he told her that we are separated and just in the same house temporarily as well as many other details. I confronted him and he said it was him setting me up (he has 3 cell phones and It was supposidly him acting as the other woman on another on of his phones)becouse he knew I would eventually snoop on his phone, so I should get over it and I should be apologizing to him for being nosey. He said instead of talking about this bullshit that I should be more concerned about keeping the house clean and cook more. As I was crying my eyes out and showing my heart he had this smirk on his face and was kind of laughing at me making me feel as if I am crazy for reacting like this and that he feels sorry for my weakness. That entire next week he said some of the most outragious things to me that I could not even emagine hearing(I can't help the ladies love my swagger and I was just using women for money telling them whatever they needed to hear to take money from them to feed our family and he was pimping out girls and getting the money from them and if you want to leave me then fu@!# you no other man will want a nasty woman like you anyway). I felt completly broken and I told him I was leaving him. 3 days later he came to my mothers house where we were having sunday dinner with relatives and started mumbling saying we are all fake ass people and trying to rush the kids out the house (ages 2 & 3). My mom grabbed my son and was asking him what was his problem and he should not take the kids in this state but he told her he will kick her door down if she did not move(which she did). He threw our son in the car and I instinctivly ran, grabbed our daughter and jumped in as he was pulling off. I didn't know where he was going with my baby, but he went straight home. I told him he was being compleatly irrational and out of control. My mother drove right behind us and the argument continued. I was trying to get the kids away from it but at the same time was scared to leave my mom alone with him. The kids would not stay away with all this noise so I went to tell him to just leave and he looked at me and said F!@$ you and your mother. I got mad and was about to say it back when he hit me in the face in front of the kids(the first time). I went to call the police but he snatched the phone out of my hand and I was left hurt and did not know what he was going to do. Fortunetly my mom called the police before she left the house to follow us and they showed up took statments and took him to jail. This was a month ago and I have since then moved out and got an apartment for me and the kids. My parents helped me out with everything financial. My parents got him out of jail 3 days later. Their excuse was that he does not need to loose his job, the he will be no help to you and the kids. since then he has done and said all of the right things. He said he has found GOD and that his life has been turned around for the better. He is in some group therapy and said he will do everything he can to get his family back. Said he knows he was wrong for the years of emotional abuse and that GOD has taken all of the hatred from him, he just wants the chance to show me that he can be a good husband and father. He is really trying to convince me that people can change and that it took this situation to open his eyes to the truth. Do people really change like that? Is it worth another try? or is this all talk from him. I want to do whats best for the kids as well as myself and i'm not sure. any advice would be greatly appreicated.
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