I am in this relationship for almost 8 months with a man who is verbaly and emotionaly abusive he is also is recovering from a crack/cocaine addiction. I have lived with him for almost the whole time. Lately I havn't been able to shake some of these bad feelings off. He underminds my sexual bounderies and makes jokes about things I won't do in bed and now I don't want to even touch him let alone perform his sexual fantisies. We are suppose to go for counseling but his theripist recommends he has more recovery first. I do love him (although it dosn't feel like it lately) I'm so confused should I just leave?
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