
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.

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any one feel this way during the holiday?
i get very emotional and cry during this time.need someone to talk too.
i get very emotional and cry during this time.need someone to talk too.
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Someone told me that I needed to stop, slow down and take care of ME. They said to stop worrying about the perfect house, gifts, cookies, whatever. Do a little then do something for YOU. It doesn't have to be expensive or lavish.
The point was not to expect to much from yourself OR the holidays in general. I think it's just these expectations that we set up and NOTHING can ever measure up.
I WILL NOT say to NOT cry. I think crying is good. But if you find you're crying TOO much, check with your doctor, you may have SAD (seasonal affective disorder) or be in more than the blues, rather in depression which can be treated.
In any case, DO NOT give up hope. Start today and do something you ENJOY, treat yourself like you wuold a friend who was feeling this way.
Let me know how you're doing...as the holiday progresses....
Love and hugs,
Morus
I am just like you, I have been trying to keep peace in the family so I please wife with anything she wants, while at the same time bearing the blunt of her verbal abuse and emotional abuse towards me and the kids.