So my mind has been reeling the last few weeks, after my pathetic attempt to get my ex back, since I found out he has someone new. I am trying to focus on all the reasons I don't want him back and reassure myself this is for the best. I started thinking about cheating and wanted to see if anyone else experienced this. My ex cheated on my while we were together, immediately started seeing people after fights, he would leave for days, meet someone and start a relationship and I am pretty sure he had other things going on while we were supposed to be working on things, always has the irons in the fire. Always and I mean ALWAYS this was somehow my fault. I didn't pay enough attention to him, I was going home to visit my family all the time, you kicked me out, etc, etc, etc. Has anyone else experienced this and the blame that gets placed on you. Do they find it easier to move on because they find some new girl they can charm and they don't have to deal with all the baggage from you? Sorry, this ended up being a ramble...
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