I went to the cntr. on Friday for "abused women" and was given inform. on support groups, shelter and signed the paper if I decide to get a restraining order. It was nice to be informed about my options and to actually have someone validate that "YES" it is in fact abuse. When I came on on Friday my bf went through so my emotions w/in an hr. (accusation, anger, calm, then crying) It asked me to pls. "let us forget everything in the past and start fresh". I asked him for each of us to write down what bothers on another, then exchange paper and write down the solution for each topic written. He did this w/o any problem. The only thing I did not bring up is "what happens when either one of us does one of the thing written". Should I forgive and forget and start fresh? What should the coniquence be if old behavior returns? thank you
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