I know i can be the only one. I am in what i believe as an emotionally abusive relationship. I am getting married to a wonderful man in september and dont get me wrong we are very happy together. but sometimes i cant stand it. Every fight is my fault. He can say the most hurtful things to me " your annoying" "what are you dumb?" when i call he answers like "what do you need/want?" I feel like a burden to him. If i get a text message or a phone call he wants to know who it is or why they are calling. if a friend text me he makes me call them to prove to him its a girl and not a guy. Sometimes i feel like crawling in a hole and dying. one minute he tells me he loves me and cant wait to spend our lives together than the very next phone conversation hes saying hes through with me and doent want me anymore then two hours later says he takes it all back . but the one thing i have yet to get is a "im sorry" its always something along the lines of "well i said that cause you did this or that" its always cause of me. I think when you love someone you should never talk to them that way even if you are mad. PLease somone help me what can i do to make our relationship better.
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