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Anyone have a Nice Thanksgiving?

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My Thanksgiving was very nice with my son's and families. The food was awesome and the company, warm and loving. Everything was great until the music started...Garth Brooks "The Dance". I sucked up the tears, bid my farewell and sobbed all the way home. I pretended that it was no big deal because I don't want to upset anyone by being emotional. It's just that certain songs bring back memories of slow dances and warm embraces. Just too much to handle right now. I did however resist the urge to call "him". That would NOT have been good.
I hope that others here had a decent holiday with family or loved ones. XOXO
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Hey Netti! Glad to hear you had a good thanksgiving, except for that song making you sad. ITs good to hear ^_^

My thanksgiving was pretty good, although my mother is a horrible cook, haha.

Glad u were strong and didnt call whoever 'him' is. :D! *hugz!!!*
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thank you for sharing your good thanksgiving with us =]
mine was pretty good too
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I know how you feel. I am dating someone and he had on some music last week and the song that played at my wedding (our first dance) came on. I sobbed uncontrollably! Fortunately, the man I am dating is an angel from heaven. But, I know what you are feeling. I have cried so many times, and it's not like I want the ex back. HE's and ABUSER. It's still not easy. I guess it just takes lots of time.
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Oh, I'm sooo glad that others here on DS were able to have a nice holiday regardless of our struggles. We're a very special group of individuals. Been tested by fire and still fighting for peace in this life.
Love you all...Netti
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stbx brought my son home covered in mud, stating..he needs a little shower...knowing damn well we had dinner plans...after I calmed down from that...all went well
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Hi Netti, I had a good thanksgiving also. I can certainly understand about the song. I use to have this George Strait song that I just couldn't listen too because it reminded me to much of my last 3 divorces and would make me cry. Everytime it would come on I'd just cut it off. Finally, I can listen to it now. I really like Garth also. I have most of his albums. Have good holidays - Kat
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