My stbx just told me right before thanksgiving that I deserve nothing, he will do nothing for me, ask me for anything....he says has always put in more because he actually earned a living(I was a stay at home mome, took care of everything around here, bills, yardwork, housework etc...)The past two weeks he gave me extra money, and he picked out a gift for me to put in the box of things my sons picked out.....my question...what the hell his wrong with him???? How can someone be so contradicting of their own words and actions? I told my son that my gift to his father, because we are not together anymore, is taking him(my son) shopping for his dad. I will not be giving him a gift. Stbx wanted to leave, I think it sends mixed messages. Now it sounds like I am being a major bitch for complaining about this....but the verbal abuse before Thanksgiving was extreme concerning his views on how I should try to earn a paycheck.......he is crazy....I suppose he expects me to be self sufficiant as soon as he decides to leave after ten years of being a stay at home mom. Jerk.Venting.........thanks.
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