I need feedback. Now I see where my husband learned his abusive behavior. I have spent the last 5 years keeping the peace with this woman out of respect of the fact that she is my husbands mother, and the grandma of my child. She has disrespected me, belittled me, cast upon me her unasked for, old school ways of raising children, and now she came into my home and raised her voice at me, picked a fight and kept it going even after I asked her to leave, and all in front of my son. She told me I 'don't care about people", said that she "realizes I was raised in an unstable environment...", and insulted my intelligence by telling me "look at you, you can't even verbalize what you want to say" because I was biting my tongue due to the fact that my 4 year old son was 5 feet away. Now, my abusive husband's reaction is to do nothing or say nothing because he doesn't want to be in the middle. So it is apparently ok with him for his mom to physically hit his son in public when I was 10 feet away just because he threw a tantrum. This is one of the things that began the whole "fight" because she asked what I expect from her. She did'nt like my calm response, so she she interrupted me and started yelling....I feel like I am drowning here in the sea of psychotic people who surround me. I am wondering if I am over reacting, or is it the abused persons "warped thinking" that is getting the best of me.
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