Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
Abuse is a general term for the treatment of someone that causes some kind of harm (to the abused person, to the abusers themselves, or to someone else) that is unlawful or wrongful. No one deserves abuse, period. Abuse can be emotional, physical, or sexual.
hello.
Ok this is what I am going thru. I am in a loveless marriage. We have two kids. We are trying to work on things, I am bi-polar and he does not understand.
I am also codependt so when i find someone to talk to then I trust them.
I met someone yes they were male 5 years ago and we have been close friends every since. Well back in June my friend decided that he did not care for me anymore and would rather drink himself silly.
It hurt really bad. My husband , well he told me that i needed to seek help and leave everyone alone. I dont work like that.
There ya go
Pleae do not judge me..
Em
Ok this is what I am going thru. I am in a loveless marriage. We have two kids. We are trying to work on things, I am bi-polar and he does not understand.
I am also codependt so when i find someone to talk to then I trust them.
I met someone yes they were male 5 years ago and we have been close friends every since. Well back in June my friend decided that he did not care for me anymore and would rather drink himself silly.
It hurt really bad. My husband , well he told me that i needed to seek help and leave everyone alone. I dont work like that.
There ya go
Pleae do not judge me..
Em
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I do not understand what it's like to be bi-polar; perhaps your husband is like me... he just doesn't know what you are going through.
However, I feel he should make every effort to research it to support you and help you manage the disorder.
People with addictions are not the best people to choose for a support system. My best friend (before she passed away from alcoholism) was not really supportive of me... she could not be - she was too dependent on the bottle and too impaired to be a supportive friend.
I had to realize that I was her friend no matter what... and that she could not be my friend unconditionally. Once I realized this, I was able to love her and accept that she would not be there for me. Sobriety was not attainable for her.
She tried to get sober. But to no avail.
I tried to be there for her even though I was having crisis after crisis in my own personal life. She was never there for me emotionally. I resented her for that for a long time. However, I chose her as my friend and I knew of her addiction, so I accepted her on those terms.
My husband used to say... "Well, you know she is a drunk. Either accept her as she is, or cut her loose."
That was good advice, actually.
I miss her so badly. But at least now, she is at rest.
Jo :)