i know this doesnt happen often but my wife has been seeing a counsler who is abuse crazy and my wife has got on board. she is going to a woman abuse shelter because i get upset about her affairs. not violent upset not screaming upset but just sad upset and i told her how she made me feel (like my counsler told me too) and i am told that is mental abuse. her affair is not a physical one but an internet one (on ds in fact) but it has consumed her so much that she attempted suicide when he said he wanted to back off. what i want to know is should i wait for her to come around or should i say enough and just give up trying to hold this together. there is a history of sexual abuse with my wife and alot of things set her off but i am so tired of trying to keep the boat floating and then this.....i am at a loss
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