I've recently realized how emotionally abusive and controlling my father has been his whole life. He is old, and so I seem him now more often than I should, and my mother is ill. My question is: is it normal to feel angry when I am around him? I don't want to be, but sometimes I feel angry and powerless around him. Does anyone else experience such issues?
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