I really don't know where to begin. I have been in this abusive relationship for 10 years. I left once and moved away. I've been punched in the face, slapped, spite on. And everytime i believe he will change it just doesn't make sense to me how one minute he can be the most caring and sweet person and the next have so much rage and hatred towards me. After we got back together i thought things were going good we were communicating with each other and talking about this instead of arguing. Then this past week i found out i have abnormal cells which could be cancer, well he told his work that i had cancer so he had to quit (which we weren't even sure at the time) And he told me that the reason was because it was slow and there was no work. Well HR called me looking for him asking if was coming back to work. I said you would have to talk to him and that i guess him and his forman decided that there wasn't enough work for him so quitting for now. And the she proceeds to tell me that he told them the reason has to quit is because i have cancer so i just said yes that is there other reason just to cover for him. Well i phone him and tell him our conversation and he flips out starting screaming at me saying i should have said there was no work (i guess that was just the lie he told me) called me a bitch and said he was moving out. When i came home his clothes were gone. I just cant believe what happened i am in shock i cannot make sense of it. To leave me and our young daughter over that, when just this morning he was telling how much he loved me. It just doesn't make sense. Feeling very alone thank you for letting me vent.
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