My ex is so bitter that I divorced him, that anytime he has anything to say to me, he is completely nasty. He recently sent me an email telling me he is in such a great place in his life and thanks to me. He has met an incredible woman and he won't make the same mistakes he made with me. They are going away this weekend together. This information was not solicited and I feel it is cruel. I divorced him because he was emotionally unavailable, an alchoholic, everything was more important than me. He critized my friends, my family, my hair, my weight, everything, oh but - he loves me. He used personal, hurtful things that I confided in him against me. I thought I was over this, but yet I am reeling now. He has moved on and is now a better person, because she is incredible? What was wrong with me? He hates me for the divorce, I should move on and not care, because I know he is bad for me, but all I can feel is hurt and am obsessed with his being with someone else.
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