
Physical & Emotional Abuse Support Group
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I know this is a tactic of an abuser as I learned it at my womens aid seminar but I wondered if anyone else had this experience. My children are on the child protection register for emotional abuse because I asked for help when I was pregnant as to me my husband was trying to kill our baby by constantly being abusive by making me cry and knowing he was causing me pain by doing so.
He has acted up to these social workers and they see a very charming man. I have had a report today that says it is me who is causing emotional abuse to my children for what they call my emotional presentation. When he is with the baby he acts the caring father and falls over himself to show his loving caring side but that all changes when they have gone.
I have to give evidence to get a court order if he were to leave the house but if the authorities don't believe me then what chance do I stand in court. these men are such good liars. how do I show his real side to these people when he is such a good actor
thanks
June
He has acted up to these social workers and they see a very charming man. I have had a report today that says it is me who is causing emotional abuse to my children for what they call my emotional presentation. When he is with the baby he acts the caring father and falls over himself to show his loving caring side but that all changes when they have gone.
I have to give evidence to get a court order if he were to leave the house but if the authorities don't believe me then what chance do I stand in court. these men are such good liars. how do I show his real side to these people when he is such a good actor
thanks
June
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You don't need to show his real face to the courts. They will see it for themselves eventually.
Do what you have to do to protect your children, but DO NOT go into court without ammunition, because more than likely he will have his.
What goes around comes around...it will catch up with him..
many hugs to you and you are in my prayers.
But I also gave this person superhuman attributes in my mind, because he doesn't show emotion, completely detached and confused when confronted by "neutral" parties.
The bottom line is that you've got to outlast him, however awful that is. He'll show something eventually.
I just hate this stereotypical situation and that's all it is. Go with the women's advocate and they'll boost you.